You have a girlfriend, who finds you attractive. Regarding your looks, don't be so hard on yourself. And cheating on her with a man (and it is cheating) would feel even worse. You actually owe it to yourself too, because hiding this kind of thing can be tough on you. And if she doesn't, well then I don't recommend staying in a relationship with her at all. She might not be on-board right away, but if you wait long enough and explain that this isn't something you can just turn off, she will probably warm up to the idea. But I also think that if this relationship is getting serious in any way, you owe it to your SO to talk to her about it first and let her get used to the idea. I think you owe it to yourself to check this out. Or you could find something in-between that is a lot more complicated. You might find that in person, men just aren't as attractive as in porn. You might find out you like sex with men better than with women. Now, it looks to me that your attraction to men is something you seriously want to check out. It's a label, one of many, that just might partially describe your sexuality. Try to think of it this way: Being bi isn't something you admit. Honestly, if any of that check-list is a no or you don't feel as though you'd be happy in any of the above situations, you're most likely not-gay. Not 100% gay, I know the whole "it's gay if the balls touch" joke fits here, but honestly being gay actually has a longer check list.ģ) Would maintain a relationship with same gender (it's not bbf/bromance if you're going down on each other every Friday night, that's just denial)Ĥ) Would do all those things with a same sex partner that a heterosexual couple is theoretically supposed to do (share finances, raise a kid, grow old together, sickness-and-in-health, etc) I hate saying this because it lends a little bit of strength to the "being gay is a choice" crazies, but I think it's perfectly acceptable to believe that gay sex could be a fetish thing as well.īeing gay is more then just being attracted to the same sex, it's about the commitment aspect as well. In terms of sexuality, does this go beyond normal fantasies and is it time to admit I'm bisexual?Īlways just a bit too much of this, I mean whatever floats a person's boat. I think guys would think I'm ugly.Īs much as I'd love to try the experience, I don't think I'll ever get the chance. Given the opportunity in the right situation (for example if I were single) I would have sex with a man, but my problem lies in self confidence, nerves.
That's probably the only time I've actively tried to have sex with a man. I feel so embarrassed now thinking back, and I'm not sure if he cottoned on. When I was about 15 I tried to get a good male friend to play strip poker. But as soon as I've finished masturbating, all that desire is gone. I often fantasise about meeting a Gay man public and having sex in public. I am in a happy relationship with a female, but I still get the urge to masturbate over gay porn.įor some reason it gets me more aroused. Since I was about 13 I've masturbated to Gay porn (and straight porn). If you need help or someone to talk to, try the GLBT Hotline. Taking tasteful nudes and sexy selfies (article) Gay sex FAQs from r/topsandbottoms (article) What you need to know about lube (YT video)
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